Self Care Newsletter Vol#53 Week #5 "You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step." Martin Luther King Jr.


Rejuvenate & Thrive

NURTURE YOUR ESSENCE

Focus: Why Do We Procrastinate?

"The secret of getting ahead is getting started."

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Intentional & Sustainable Self-Care Newsletter

Volume #53

Why Do We Procrastinate?

"I am very familiar with procrastination. I often waited until the last minute to get the job done. I remember trying all types of time management strategies, only to revert right back to procrastinating. I thought I wasn't purposeful or skilled enough to really do the task. I realized that each time, my feelings went through one of the fight, flight, freeze, or fawn states, which let me know I felt pressure and stress—my mind, body, and emotions were being affected. I was harming myself internally because the effects of stress are silent and deadly. I knew I had to make a change or continue to allow my situation to dictate my life outcome by ignoring the signs.

Procrastination is often a "freeze" response rooted in a lack of confidence or a blockage of personal power, focusing on the Solar Plexus Chakra (Manipura). I've included a Solar Plexus Fire Activation to unblock the energy center responsible for our "do-power." This is the Solar Plexus Chakra, located right above your navel. Try this: Place your hand on your upper abdomen, just below your ribs, and feel the warmth of your palm. Close your eyes and imagine a bright, golden-yellow sun glowing right under your hand. With every breath, this sun gets brighter and warmer. Imagine that this yellow light is burning away the "freeze" and the "fog" of procrastination, turning your hesitation into fuel. Repeat this internally or out loud: "I possess the power to begin. My inner fire is stronger than my fear." Take one final deep breath into that space, feel the heat of your own potential, and prepare to take action.

Most of the world will tell you that procrastination is a time-management problem, but here in our sanctuary, we know the truth: it is an emotion-management problem. We aren't avoiding the task; we are avoiding the feeling the task gives us. Look at your procrastination as a protective shield. Your brain is trying to keep you safe from a perceived threat—failure, judgment, or perfectionism. Procrastination is just your nervous system saying, "I don't feel safe enough to be vulnerable right now." Self-care is giving yourself the safety to start.

Here are some strategies for breakthrough: Try the "Low-Stakes Start" (The 5-Minute Rule)—commit to the task for only five minutes and tell yourself you can quit after that. This lowers the "activation energy" required. Use the "Forgiveness Fast-Track"—if you wasted the first few hours of today, do not waste the next hour judging yourself. Forgiveness clears the emotional slate. Practice the "Dread Audit"—identify what specifically makes you uncomfortable about the task. Once you name the "dread," it loses its power. Then try the 2-Minute Pivot: Identify the "ugh" task that made you feel heavy. Break it down to the smallest slice—what is the literal first step? (e.g., "Open a blank document" or "Pick up one box.") If you can do that step right now, do it. If not, write down exactly when you will do that one 2-minute slice today.

Keep a "Done" list instead of a "To-Do" list today to celebrate every small win. Try temptation bundling—only allow yourself your favorite treat or podcast while doing the avoided task. Use community accountability by sharing your 2-minute slice with a friend to stay on track. Remember: procrastination is just a sign that you need more self-compassion, not more discipline. You are already capable. Don't worry about the whole mountain—just move the first pebble."


Be Blissful,

Dr. MoJo: Self-Care Strategist


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Wholeness, Beautiful Soul✨!

Welcome to this sacred space where we explore with compassion the patterns that keep us stuck. This week, we're diving deep into the question: Why do we procrastinate? Not to shame or judge ourselves, but to understand the hidden fears, unmet needs, and protective mechanisms beneath our delays. Your procrastination isn't laziness—it's a message, and it's time to listen.


Food For Thought:

Nourishment for Your Soul: Decoding Your Delays

What if your procrastination is actually trying to protect you? What if the task you're avoiding represents something deeper—a fear of being seen, a resistance to change, a protection against failure or success, or an alignment issue where your soul knows this isn't your path?

Consider this: A child who refuses to do homework might not be lazy—they might be struggling with learning challenges, feeling overwhelmed, fearing failure, or needing connection instead of tasks. When we procrastinate as adults, the same dynamics are often at play. We're not being difficult—we're communicating something important through our resistance.

Understanding the Wisdom Beneath the Delay

There's a harsh judgment we place on procrastination—we call ourselves lazy, undisciplined, or self-sabotaging when we put things off. We shame ourselves for not "just doing it," believing that if we had more willpower or motivation, we'd simply push through. But this understanding of procrastination is incomplete and often damaging. Procrastination isn't a character flaw—it's usually a symptom of something deeper that needs your attention.

Understanding why you procrastinate is the first step to changing the pattern. When you can identify what fear, need, or protection mechanism is driving your delay, you can address the root cause rather than just forcing yourself to "do better." Self-compassion, not self-criticism, is the pathway through procrastination.

"Procrastination is the art of keeping up with yesterday."

Don Marquis



WISDOM FROM SPIRITUAL MOTHERS & FATHERS

Louise Hay:
"I am willing to release the need to be unworthy. I am willing to release the pattern in me that is creating resistance to my own good."
Maya Angelou:
"You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them."
Iyanla Vanzant:
"Your willingness to look at your darkness is what empowers you to change."

Closing: Heart-to-Heart

Dearest one, remember that understanding your procrastination is an act of profound self-love. Just as a gardener wouldn't shame a plant for not blooming while ignoring that it needs water, you cannot shame yourself into sustainable action while ignoring the needs, fears, and protections beneath your delays. Compassionate curiosity is the water that allows growth.

With infinite and deep compassion for your journey,

Your Self-Care Strategist 💕

P.S. Sweet soul, if you're reading this while procrastinating on something right now and beating yourself up about it, please pause and breathe. Place your hand on your heart and ask: "What am I afraid of? What do I need?" Listen with kindness. Maybe you're afraid it won't be good enough. Maybe you need rest first. Maybe the task isn't aligned with your values. Maybe you need to break it into smaller pieces. Whatever the answer, it's valid. You're not lazy or broken—you're human, and you're protecting yourself from something. Honor that. Then, if you're able, take one tiny imperfect step. Just one. Not to prove yourself, but to practice gentleness with yourself. That's how healing happens—one compassionate choice at a time.

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit."

Aristotle


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Call-to-Action: "Don’t wait to start your journey. Click below to join Ignite Your Inner You Community!!!

🔮 Ignite Your Inner YOU: Chakra Series

"Your Healthy MoJo~Self-Care Strategist: The Chakra Series." This essential collection, created by Dr. MoJo, guides you through a profound journey of self-discovery and energetic alignment, spanning from the grounding Earth Star and Root to the divine connection of the Crown Chakra.

Each of the eight energy centers (Earth Star, Root, Sacral, Solar Plexus, Heart, Throat, Third Eye, and Crown) is addressed with its own dedicated, transformative recording paired with an in-depth eBook to solidify your understanding and practice. Individually, each Chakra recording and eBook bundle is available for $25.00, offering a powerful, focused self-care strategy.

However, when you purchase two or more Chakra bundles, the price drops to just $20.00 each. Start your personalized healing journey today and feel the difference of a balanced, vibrant self.

Click The Chakra Series link below:

Contact me: info@yourhealthymojosc.com

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