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Self Care Newsletter Vol#40 WK#5 "The only journey is the one within." Rainer Maria Rilke
Published 5 days ago • 5 min read
Rejuvenate & Thrive
Focus: We're Never Done Becoming
"Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death."
Anaïs Nin
Your Weekly
Intentional & Sustainable Self-Care Newsletter
Volume #40
We're Never Done Becoming
"I had a profound realization recently about what it truly means when we say we're never done becoming. Every experience we have—every challenge, every self-healing moment, every self-care practice, even every people-pleasing pattern we recognize—we are remembering who we are while simultaneously becoming who we're meant to be. With each of these experiences, we gain insight into parts of our inner selves we didn't know existed. These are all the ways we are still evolving on our life journey, still unfolding into fuller versions of ourselves.
Growth is not a destination; it's the journey itself. We often fall into the trap of "destination sickness" in self-care, believing we'll finally be happy, healed, or whole once we reach some perfect milestone—when the house stays clean, when the promotion arrives, or when we finally fix that one flaw we've been obsessing over. This mindset is exhausting and keeps us perpetually dissatisfied.
The truth is, life is constantly changing, and therefore, you must constantly change to meet it. Self-care is the practice of gently adapting and nurturing yourself through these endless cycles of becoming. Being "done" is the end of growth. Being "becoming" is the ultimate self-care strategy because it replaces the pressure of perfection with the grace of continuous learning.
To fully embrace who you're becoming, you have to be gentle with who you were. Life throws curveballs that force change, and having an "Adaptation Anchor"—a core practice or belief that grounds you—helps you adapt without losing your center. This ensures that even when everything else is shifting, your core self remains intact and guides your becoming process.
Our attitude plays a major part in this journey—it's 90 percent of the mental, emotional, and spiritual work, while only 10 percent is the implementation. Remember, we are both a masterpiece and a work in progress. Embracing the experience is what it means to be a spirit having a human experience. We often see only the finished product in others, but the part that gets ignored—the becoming—is essential to understanding this journey. You are exactly where you need to be, becoming exactly who you're meant to be."
Be Blissful,
Dr. MoJo: Self-Care Strategist
Join Ignite Your Inner YOU Community where it starts and ends with you BECOMING Intentionally YOU! It's time to start BETTING ON YOU! On Sunday, November 9th, 2025 @ 5pm to 6:30pm EST,THECrown Chakra!
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Here is a list of the previous recorded Chakras: 0. Earth Star, 1. Root, 2. Sacral, 3. Solar Plexus, 4. the Heart, 5. Throat, 6. Third-Eye, and 7.Crown, 8. Soul Star, 9.Stellar Gateway, 10. Universe Gateway, 11. Divine Gateway: Totaling 12
Welcome to this sacred space where growth has no finish line and evolution is celebrated as a lifelong journey. This week, we're embracing one of life's most liberating truths: you are never done becoming who you're meant to be. There is no final version of you to arrive at—only infinite possibilities waiting to unfold. Your becoming is eternal, and that is your greatest freedom.
Food For Thought:
Honoring Your Continuous Evolution:
The Beauty of Perpetual Becoming
There's a damaging myth in our culture: that by a certain age, you should have it all figured out. That there's a destination called "arrival" where growth stops, change ends, and you finally become the finished product you were always meant to be. This myth creates shame around growth, anxiety about change, and the false belief that if you're still evolving, you're somehow behind schedule.
But here's the revolutionary truth: you are not a product to be completed—you are a process in perpetual motion. As women, we often feel pressure to have everything figured out—our career path, our relationship status, our life purpose, our identity. Every season of your life brings new lessons, new challenges, new versions of yourself emerging.
This week, we honor your eternal becoming. We celebrate the fact that you're not the same person you were last year, last month, or even last week. We release the pressure to have it all figured out and embrace the magnificent uncertainty of continuous growth. You're not just practicing self-care—you're giving yourself permission to evolve infinitely, without apology or deadline.
WISDOM FROM SPIRITUAL MOTHERS & FATHERS
Louise Hay:
"Every thought we think is creating our future. The point of power is always in the present moment."
Maya Angelou:
"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty."
Iyanla Vanzant:
"Everything we experience—good or bad, painful or pleasant—is part of a divine curriculum designed to help us grow."
Closing: Heart-to-Heart
Dearest one, remember that your perpetual becoming is not a flaw to fix but a feature to celebrate. Just as the ocean never stops moving and reshaping itself, you are designed for constant evolution. Every wave that crashes and recedes leaves the shore slightly different—and so it is with you. Each experience, each lesson, each version of yourself leaves you transformed, preparing you for the next beautiful unfolding.
With celebration of your perpetual evolution,
Your Self-Care Strategist 💕
P.S. Beautiful soul, if you're reading this and feeling exhausted by the idea of never being done, please breathe into your heart with gentleness. Continuous becoming doesn't mean you can never rest or must always be "working on yourself." It simply means you don't have to have it all figured out. You don't have to be the finished product. You don't have to stop growing to be worthy of love and belonging right now. You are whole and complete in this moment, even as you continue to evolve. Think of becoming not as endless striving, but as endless possibility. You get to keep discovering yourself, surprising yourself, delighting yourself with who you're becoming. This isn't a burden—it's a gift. You have your whole life to unfold, and that means there's always room for new dreams, new directions, and new versions of yourself. Take the pressure off. You're doing beautifully.
"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom."
Anaïs Nin
Join Ignite Your Inner YOU Community where it starts and ends with you BECOMING Intentionally YOU! It's time to start BETTING ON YOU!On Sunday, November 9th, 2025 @ 5pm to 6:30pm EST,THECrown Chakra!
Pricing Options:
Monthly: $20/month
Quarterly: $60/quarter
Annually: $240/year
Call-to-Action: "Don’t wait to start your journey. Click below to join Ignite Your Inner You Community!!!You will receive the month you joined and the prior month recording for (28 days). The prior recording are available for purchase.
Here is a list of the previous recorded Chakras: 0. Earth Star, 1. Root, 2. Sacral, 3. Solar Plexus, 4. the Heart, and 5. Throat, 6. Third-Eye, and 7. Crown, 8. Soul Star, 9.Stellar Gateway, 10. Universe Gateway, 11. Divine Gateway: Totaling 12
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