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Self Care Newsletter Vol#34 WK#3 "Magnetism is not about being perfect. It's about being real." Unknown
Published about 2 months ago • 5 min read
Rejuvenate & Thrive
Focus: Permission to Be Magnetic You
"Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you."
Marianne Williamson
Your Weekly
Intentional & Sustainable Self-Care Newsletter
Volume #34
Permission to Be Magnetic You
"I spent the majority of my life shrinking myself, to avoid being seen or heard. I would disappear into the back of every room, deflect compliments like they were insults, and make myself the joke before anyone else could because I had no sense of who I was or any belief in my own worth. Being magnetic is learning to stop shrinking and start shining, and understanding that authentic self-care is the key to attracting the life and people you desire. At one point in my life, I couldn't think of a single thing that made me feel magnetic, but as I became more self-aware, I discovered that positive self-talk and wearing my favorite copper and crystal jewelry helped me tap into feelings of confidence and authenticity. This simple practice taught me that magnetism comes from within—it's the energy that flows from you when you are fully and unapologetically yourself, when you don't censor your joy, your opinions, or your unique way of being. You naturally draw in people and opportunities that are aligned with who you truly are.
So why do we sometimes hide our light? We often do it out of fear: fear of judgment, rejection, or not fitting in. But when we embrace true self-care and practice it consistently—choosing authenticity over approval—that's the path to becoming magnetic. I began practicing what I call Magnetic Self-Care: Being honest with myself by resting when I feel exhausted, connecting with people who truly see and celebrate me rather than just judge me, and embracing vulnerability as strength by sharing my struggles, because true connection is built on authenticity, not perfection. Remember, you don't have to earn your right to be magnetic. You already are. It's just a matter of giving yourself permission to show up fully as you are."
Be Blissful,
Dr. MoJo: Self-Care Strategist
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Welcome to this sacred space where your authentic magnetism takes center stage. This week, we're embracing the revolutionary act of giving yourself full permission to be the magnetic, radiant, irresistible woman you were born to be—without apology, without dimming your light, without making yourself smaller for anyone's comfort.
Food For Thought:Embracing Your Magnetic Nature
What if the very thing you've been taught to hide or tone down is actually your greatest strength? Your magnetism isn't about being perfect—it's about being powerfully authentic. Consider this: every woman who has ever inspired you possessed one common quality—the courage to be fully herself, regardless of others' opinions or expectations.
Your magnetic essence is a combination of your unique energy, your authentic presence, and your willingness to show up as you truly are. It's the way you laugh without covering your mouth, the passion in your voice when you speak about what you love, the confidence in your walk when you feel aligned with your truth.
WISDOM FROM SPIRITUAL MOTHERS & FATHERS
Louise Hay's Insight:
"You have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn't worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens."
Maya Angelou's Truth:
"A woman in harmony with her spirit is like a river flowing. She goes where she will without pretense and arrives at her destination prepared to be herself and only herself."
Iyanla Vanzant's Wisdom:
"Your willingness to look at your darkness is what empowers you to change."
Closing: Heart-to-Heart
Dearest one, remember that giving yourself permission to be magnetic is not vanity—it's a sacred act of honoring the divine feminine energy that flows through you. Just as flowers don't apologize for their beauty or the sun doesn't dim its light, you were never meant to shrink your magnificence to accommodate others' insecurities.
With infinite belief in your dazzling authenticity,
Your Self-Care Strategist 💕
P.S. Sweet soul, if you're reading this and thinking "I'm not magnetic" or "I don't have anything special to offer," please pause and breathe deeply into your heart. Your magnetism isn't about being the loudest, most glamorous, or most accomplished woman in the room. It's about being the most authentic. It's the way you make people feel heard, the passion that lights up your eyes, the wisdom in your quiet observations, the love in your laughter. Start exactly where you are. Wear the lipstick you've been saving. Speak the truth you've been hiding. Take the photo without waiting for the perfect moment. Your magnetism is already there—you just need to give yourself permission to let it be seen. Sometimes the most magnetic thing you can do is simply stop apologizing for taking up space in the world. "Every single one of us is a unique vibration in a beautiful symphony of infinite creation."
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure."
Marianne Williamson
Join Ignite Your Inner YOU Community where it starts and ends with you BECOMING Intentionally YOU! It's time to start BETTING ON YOU!On Sunday, September 21st, 2025 @ 5pm to 6:30pm EST,THECrown Chakra!
Pricing Options:
Monthly: $20/month
Quarterly: $60/quarter
Annually: $240/year
Call-to-Action: "Don’t wait to start your journey. Click below to join Ignite Your Inner You Community!!!You will receive the month you joined and the prior month recording for (28 days). The prior recording are available for purchase.
Here is a list of the previous recorded Chakras: 0. Earth Star, 1. Root, 2. Sacral, 3. Solar Plexus, 4. the Heart, and 5. Throat, 6. Third-Eye, and 7. Crown, 8. Soul Star, 9.Stellar Gateway, 10. Universe Gateway, 11. Divine Gateway: Totaling 12
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